So 언니 and I came to a conclusion that may not be groundbreaking, but it’s certainly significant for us. That clubs are not for meeting people. They are for dancing your knickers off and (if you’re willing) hooking up.
Now to make things clear: we are not looking for boyfriend stuff. We are happy in our singlehood. But we also went passed the phase when random hooking up was fun. Now we want to actually hold a conversation beforehand.
Now clubs are loud, so its another reason they are not really ‘meeting-people-friendly’. Screaming over the ‘ump, ump’ is not really fun. That’s the first thing.
All through the night we were dragged to tables to drink with the rich Gagnam kids (which now are the new Batmans: so rich and full of free time to save the planet! We send them to, say, Greece to spend thier parents money and they save the Eurozone!) or equally rich Older Dudes Who Do Something in Thier Lives (sometimes it involves, you know, working). It doesn’t really matter cause other than offering drinks, they only thing that came out of thier mouths was just bullshit. Aimed pretty much at one thing.
Now back in the days that would give us the thrill big enough to wet our pants. But we’ve been that done that and really, this only makes us roll our eyes.

Now until say, 3 am, there were people in the club that came, y’know, to dance. After 3 am it was the ‘socializing’ circles. And as dawn approached everyone started getting desperate. And either because of despair or because of the amount of alcohole consumed, standards on both sides got drastically lower. It was a droll to watch. We were also some of the girls were actually ‘professionals’. As in hooking up with guys for money and shitz. Not sure if that is true. I would say not.

I guess I’m mostly ranting because I was the club kid too. No regrets. I think everyone should go through a crazy phase once in thier lives. Something to tell your grandkids in a few decades. Just funny to look at it all now, when I’m on the verge of becoming an adult. Not.